We know there are a lot of details and decisions to be made on your big day, however many of them are far more important to you as a bride. While a groom might be excited about attending a cake tasting, he probably won’t be as thrilled about picking out table linens or dress designs. This doesn’t mean all grooms will be checked out when it comes to the details, but if you have a reluctant groom, don’t overwhelm him.
Most men have a desire to fix things; sometimes they even fix things that don’t need to be fixed – as you probably well know. However, if you are facing any issues, it is best to run it by your partner as you might be surprised by how engaged he becomes when he is asked about his opinion regarding any issues you’re having!
Don’t feel discouraged if your hubby-to-be isn’t as vested in everything that you think needs his full attention. It’s best to present a list of what needs to be done rather than let him choose what he is interested in. This doesn’t mean let him off the hook when it comes to being involved in the wedding planning process, just don’t let yourself get frustrated if he isn’t chomping at the bit to go pick out flower arrangements.
If you have a husband who is handy, artistic, or loves music, finding a way to involve him could be easier than you think. Incorporating what he is passionate about into your wedding will be a great way to assure that you have an engaged groom. Let him book the band or DJ. If you’re groom is a tool smith, let him build something that can be incorporated into the ceremony, as it might even save you some money as well.
The most important step in this whole process is making sure that your groom feels as if his opinion is valued. If you ask him for his opinion and continually shoot it down, he will more than likely lose interest in playing a role in the planning process. Make sure to encourage his ideas and find ways that they can be included in your wedding.
We’re loving David’s tweed-style grey jacket and waistcoat. It’s lightweight and chic, but has that traditional gentlemanly edge. If you’re planning a winter wedding, opt for the thicker real deal to keep your groom and his ushers warm.
Having slightly shorter jacket sleeves exposes the shirt cuff, which gives the whole look a fashionable vibe. Complete these cuffs with some sterling silver cufflinks and you’re on to a winner.
With a blue tie, white shirt, grey suit jacket and brown trousers and shoes, David’s outfit is pretty eclectic, but we give this colour clash the big thumbs up! A word of warning, however, this colour clashing won’t work in all colours, or on every man!
Rather than having a traditional waistcoat that overlaps the trousers, David has opted for a cropped version in this men’s style. Its wrap around style works really well, too, complete with the bulky buttons. We love!
